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Can Moms Work? 5 Steps to a Mom-Friendly Workplace

Raquel, mother and Communications Manager at Fuckup Nights talks about the historical inequality towards motherhood in the workplace and how to change it.

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Raquel Rojas
May 3, 2023
5 steps to a mom-friendly workplace

Reconciling work and family life is a constant challenge, but working mothers face additional pressures. Not only do they have to excel in their careers, but they also have to take care of their families, children and home. As a result, many women find it difficult to effectively manage their professional and personal lives. This is why it is essential to create "mother-friendly" workplaces that support working mothers and offer them the flexibility and support they need to achieve their goals. 

How did we get here? Do gender roles have anything to do with it? What can organizations do to create a mother-friendly workplace and what does that mean? Let's dive in.

Historical inequalities for women in the workplace

Many years have passed since the incorporation of women into the workplace during the Industrial Revolution, and some working conditions remain the same for women. A wage gap still exists, caused mainly by seeing motherhood as a barrier to productivity, due to shorter working hours and a pause in career advancement.

Women are still in the minority in positions of greater responsibility because these require more time, and they are not supposed to have it because they have to take care of their homes and children. And why don't women have as much time to devote to their professional careers? Because men refuse to do their part in taking care of their own children and their own home.

Here are some questions parents can ask themselves regarding housework, according to The Atlantic:

  • Do I do half the laundry and half the dishes every day?
  • Shall I buy half of the clothes and toys?
  • Do I oversee half of the household budget?
  • Do I stalk the children half the time?
  • Do I babysit half the weekend and half the weekday evenings?

It is true that new generations are examining these issues, but we need to generate real changes in our society so that women who decide to become mothers are not excluded from leadership positions or suffer the physical, emotional and economic consequences of having a double working day without the compensation or support they are entitled to.

It is clear that it is in the economic interest of women to continue having children and to maintain a system based on unpaid work. Misogyny, patriarchy and capitalism are the reasons why ‍inequality is still as pervasive in organizational cultures as it has been since the beginning. And yes, women in leadership positions also perpetuate these systems of oppression in the workplace

And speaking of the workplace, it's time to look at what companies can do to create mother-friendly workspaces.

What is a "mom-friendly" workplace?

A "mother-friendly" workplace is an organization that supports working mothers by providing policies and practices that help them effectively balance work and personal life. These policies may include flexible work schedules, work-from-home opportunities, on-site childcare and a supportive company culture. 

A mother-friendly workplace not only helps working mothers, but also benefits the organization as a whole. According to a Harvard study, companies with progressive gender diversity policies are more likely to retain and promote women. These organizations also have better reputations and are more attractive to potential employees.


Organizational benefits of a mother-friendly workplace

Increased employee retention: According to a Harvard Business Review study, offering flexible work options can significantly reduce employee turnover.

Increased productivity: Working mothers who have the flexibility to effectively manage their personal and professional lives are more likely to be productive and less stressed.

Improved company reputation: Organizations that support working mothers are generally seen as more progressive, which can help attract top talent and customers.


Here are 5 steps to create a mother-friendly workspace

Step 1: Review your company's policies

Take a close look at your company's policies and assess their impact on working mothers. Some important areas to review are:

  • Maternity leave: Make sure your company provides sufficient maternity leave to help mothers during the period of recovery and bonding with their newborn.
  • Parental leave: Evaluate whether your organization offers unpaid or paid leave for both mothers and fathers to support a more inclusive and balanced family environment.
  • Return to work: Evaluate the process of returning to work after maternity leave and consider implementing a phased return to work option to help them begin their duties.


Step 2: Work from home opportunities

Offering telecommuting opportunities can be a good way to help working mothers who need greater flexibility to manage their personal responsibilities, for example:

  • Caring for a sick child
  • Attending school events or appointments
  • Taking care of household chores

Consider offering telecommuting options to your employees on a full-time, part-time or as-needed basis. Be sure to provide the necessary tools and support to help them work effectively from home.

Step 3: Flexible schedules

Flexible schedules significantly reduce stress and improve work-life balance. Some popular flextime options include:

  • Flextime: Allow employees to start and finish work at different times, as long as they complete the required hours.
  • Reduced workweeks: Working longer hours on some days and taking a shorter workday or an extra day off in return.
  • Job sharing: Two part-time employees share the responsibilities of a full-time position.

Implementing these options may require some adjustments to your organization, but the benefits can be immense in terms of employee satisfaction, retention and productivity.


Step 4: Day care at work

One of the biggest challenges for working mothers is finding reliable and affordable childcare. Offering on-site childcare can be an important advantage for them, as it helps ensure that their children are well cared for while they work. Some options to consider are:

  • Partner with a local day care center to offer discounts to your employees.
  • Enable a specific space in your office for a small nursery.
  • Offer discounts or reimbursement of childcare expenses.

These initiatives not only support working mothers, but also demonstrate your company's commitment to employee well-being and work-life balance.


Step 5: Promote inclusive practices

Creating a mother-friendly workplace is not only about implementing specific policies and benefits, but also about fostering a company culture that values and supports working mothers. Some ways to promote inclusion include:

  • Encourage open communication and feedback from employees, especially working mothers, to understand their needs and challenges.
  • Provide training and resources to managers and supervisors on how to support working mothers in their teams.
  • Celebrate working mothers and their achievements within the organization to create a positive and supportive environment.

Creating a mother-friendly workplace is an achievable goal with the right mindset and strategy. By applying these five steps, your organization can improve employee retention and satisfaction while supporting working mothers on their personal and professional journeys.

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Can Moms Work? 5 Steps to a Mom-Friendly Workplace
Raquel Rojas
Marketing & Comms Manager
Neurodivergent, antiracist, queer, feminist, vegan for the animals, mother, sister, lover, Mexican, immigrant. Fan of music festivals by the beach, gin tonics, and annoying people with her unsolicited unpopular opinions.
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